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10 Lifestyle Habits Of Women Who Don’t Use Men To Validate Them

Sanni Lark
5 min readMar 30, 2022

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“We understand that nobody is coming to save us. We are committed to doing the scary things. We cultivate discipline in our lives, but we also honor the sacredness of breaks, days off, and rest.”

There is a silly notion that all women center their femininity around the male gaze. From personal experience and the way I live my life I can attest that this belief is false. Maybe you can agree with me as well?

There are certain habits that self-empowered women possess, as they are beautiful pillars of power who aren’t afraid to stand on their own.

We take pride in our appearance regardless of where we are.

We do not adorn our precious bodies with clothing that is dirty, or has holes and stains, even when we are lounging around in our homes. We love to look good at all times, even when nobody is watching.

We invest in quality brands and fabrics that fit our budgets, as we deserve the best.

We smell good all the time.

We don’t need any logical reason to bathe ourselves in designer scents. Different fragrance notes have their own magic and invoke certain emotions and memories.

We utilize the power of smell through various fragrances to access different aspects of our…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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