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Actually, Women Made You Hate Your Face And Body. Not Men
Us ladies are trained to derive all of our self-esteem from how we measure up to other women.
For me, maturing as a woman of depth is coming to the realization that women position men to absorb the consequences, scrutiny and responsibility of their behaviors. We blame men for the insecurities many girls and women have when we play a significant role in the low self-esteem belonging to the feminine collective which allows us to quietly resume poisoning others without anyone noticing.
As a result, women by and large do not live for themselves and their biggest aim in life is to look, function and live like a clone of another woman. If women truly embraced their individuality they will realize that nothing is inherently wrong with them and they can edit their faces and bodies to their personal liking, or just exist happily in their own skin.
However, many ladies live under the thumbs of the extremely judgmental women in their lives, plus the extremely judgmental women they don’t even know exist who are online picking apart their lives. Or rather, many of us do our best to live in ways that do not draw any attention from bitter women, which is probably why a lot of us talk ourselves out of our authenticity like starting that business, or wearing that outfit, or dating that person, or getting that…
