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Actually, You Have Enough Time To Elevate In Life!
For the most part everyone has time. They just choose to fill up their time with activities they find more meaningful than their goals is all.
“You don’t want kids? Well, what will you do in your spare time?”
My cousin asked me this question a few years ago, and I still remember looking at him as if he had two heads as he was staring into my eyes awaiting my answer. Because that was the first time it ever occurred to me that people are literally bringing whole humans into the world, all because they cannot imagine doing anything else beneficial in their free time. As far as I am concerned there is way too much to enjoy, work on, and accomplish on this planet to even consider becoming a parent to intentionally create more busyness in my life!
“Well, I want to travel. I like painting and dancing. There is a lot for me to do,” I responded.
He nodded his head, as if he was in deep thought about his own interests and hobbies that he gave up to raise his own children in the spare time he had to do whatever he wanted when wasn’t saving lives as a doctor. “You know what, Sanni? You’re right. I never thought of that.”
From that day forward I began to slowly but surely accept that people will go to any length to fight to remain exactly where they are in life, and it…
