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An Introduction To The “Selfish Femininity” Lifestyle

Sanni Lark
3 min readFeb 8, 2024

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Why the image of femininity is automatically associated with being happy to put away all desires, even the innate human desire for life itself, to be a living sacrifice is beyond me.

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A selfish woman is a woman who demands to be seen as a human being, not a vessel that can be used at any moment’s notice by anyone. Human women who view it as an honor to function as empty vessels that are of service to God, men, and children is the domain of traditional femininity, where your value matches one of a breeder cow whose life is but a measly sacrifice for the extension of the bloodlines of their families.

The fact that women, mainly those who pride themselves on being traditional wives, derive a sense of satisfaction in their husbands demanding children to be pushed and pulled and ripped out of their bodies strikes me as odd, considering that these ladies trust men who do not give a fuck about their lives with…their lives!

Women who agonize over whether having their own children is a good choice to make are women who are smart. They are women who understand the unfortunate reality of feminine beings everywhere: that we stand alone in advocating for our health and our lives while everyone else, including the people who claim they love us the most, could care less if we make it out of the delivery room alive…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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