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“Bad” Attention Stems From Horny Men Who Lack Self-Control, Not Women

Sanni Lark
3 min readJul 25, 2024

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Do women intentionally seek “bad” attention, or do men insist on providing this type of attention even though no woman has ever outwardly expressed that they want it?

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“Women advertise themselves online and then get mad when they receive the wrong attention!” confused men all around the world moan.

But…that’s the thing. If a woman is upset that men are acting like crazed, horny animals in heat over anything she does, isn’t her frustration a clear indicator that she isn’t advertising anything? Men really believe that women are solely responsible for their desires and how impulsively they act on them. Therefore, we should be punished for something they refuse to address and control within themselves.

Also, let’s address the elephant in the room: why do some men insist on giving women attention they know women clearly doesn’t want, as if the way a woman dresses or carries herself means she is asking for the same attention men claim she despises?

It’s almost as if women are not advertising anything but they are minding their business, and if a man is turned on by said woman he uses the advertising excuse to justify his creepy behavior? Like, do women intentionally seek “bad” attention every time they leave their homes or post on social media, or do men…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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