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Become A Woman Worth Gossiping About!
You are in an exclusive place in your life where your haters can’t even afford to fucking breathe around you!
I have accepted that I am an interesting woman who just commands attention. Many people have not ran into anyone as awesome and unique as I am, so I understand that people have many questions, assumptions, concerns, and a little too much displaced aggression towards me. I am sure that quite a few of the cliquish young ladies I went to school with in the past talk hella shit about me and my work and will never have the audacity to repeat what’s being discussed to my face. And I truly do not give a fuck!
You know you’ve reached bad bitch status when you are worth discussing! What do I look like addressing every single person who has something to say about me? People have mouths, therefore people talk!
Women will talk lots of shit behind your back. You know why? Because they are not even in the same vicinity as you are. They are not allowed to be present in the same spaces as you. They’re not granted the same favor as you. They are not blessed with the same opportunities as you are!
You are in an exclusive place in your life where your haters can’t even afford to fucking breathe around you! But you’re worried about the nonsense people say about you? For what? Why do you care about them so much? What are they doing for you exactly?
Great people’s reputations are always slandered and dragged through the mud. That’s the cost they pay to go higher in life. People who are bored and have nothing better to do with their lives have all the time to dig up all sorts of dirt and history on the men and women who are too busy loving themselves and enjoying their lives to address them.
Strengthen your mind, gain some maturity and emotional intelligence, and keep working. That resistance, in the form of slander, gossip, hate, and envy from others, will come. Accept that being a woman worth gossiping about is the cost to be the boss.
This is a brief excerpt from the love letter published originally in Evil Single Woman, Sanni Lark’s curated methodology which intersects dark spirituality and self-exaltation with practical womanhood. To access the full-length love letter and receive daily foundational lessons, subscribe…
