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Beg For It: Why Women Feel Victimized By The Consent They Gave Men In The Past

Sanni Lark
3 min readAug 10, 2024

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If the girls want to freely hand out legacies to any Tom, Dick, and Harry that begs for them then so be it. But I will not be participating in the shenanigans!

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If there is one excuse I hear women make over and over again when it comes to their motherhood status to garner sympathy from others, it is that they are only mothers because the fathers of their children begged them to have these babies. The truth is that women are mothers because they consented to this role. Point blank.

A man doesn’t just beg you for a baby…and all of a sudden you are immediately transported to the delivery room ready to pop at any given moment! I mean, if that was the case all of us would be mothers, myself included!

What happens in between the begging and the delivery of these babies some women claim they never wanted is a little something called consent, and this tiny yet important detail is always left out by these resentful mommies. Because the inverse of consent is found in a short, two-letter word known as no.

Men will beg for pussy, babies, money, dates, marriage, relationships, a second chance; nothing is off limits. This doesn’t mean you must go with the flow and just agree to any request a man has for your life, your heart, your body, and your time…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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