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Beggars Can’t Be Choosers: Why Women Who Claim To Know Their Worth Hate Exclusivity

Sanni Lark
4 min readJan 1, 2024

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Inclusivity means you are expected to cater to ladies who are unruly, jealous, drama-filled, undisciplined, and fixated with destroying what took you years of focus to build.

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As a woman who has participated in the shenanigans and studied her own bullshit in other ladies over many years, I can identify many key habits women have a difficult time breaking free from because they do not know their worth at all. One of those habits has to do with their willingness to spend any amount of money on distractions and coping mechanisms in the form of hairstyles, clothes and shoes, concert tickets, clubbing, brunches, and information on how to get men to give them money and pay their bills.

However, when it comes to wisdom that they know they need to free themselves from being enslaved by their traumas they demand discounts. They demand a nicer tone. They demand that those who have invested blood, sweat, and tears over the course of many long years to convince and entice and motivate them through cheap prices and pretty, feel-good lies to finally buckle down and do the work.

Why?

Because stepping into their power and tapping into this same worth they claim they have is truly an afterthought for them. Recognizing their true value outside of…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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