Being An Unlikable Person Isn’t As Bad As You Think. Here’s Why.

“Unlikable people are beautiful and misunderstood beings. They are rejected because many people simply cannot think for themselves. We challenge the norms of society and we live our lives the way we please.”

Some people have a certain aura about them. Their presence feels happy. Safe. Comfortable. Easy-going. Free. It seems as though they are beings of light, radiating joy everywhere they go. The world is drawn to them as these individuals make everyone feel good about themselves; their energy is universally non-threatening.

And then there’s me.

I do not have that same “grab” as the likable ones. I make people uncomfortable. And I don’t mean to at all. It’s just that my femininity, self-assuredness, opinionated nature, intelligence, unique beauty, talents, style, and the way I carry myself pisses people the fuck off. Not only that, but I possess a certain energy that many people just don’t take well to.

Over the years I have learned to accept this about myself. I am not for everybody. And I am realizing that this is actually a good thing.

If you are an “unlikable person” and you are struggling to accept this about yourself, read on. Here are some reasons why being an unlikable person can work in your favor.