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“Being Selfish As A Woman Is A Form Of Activism”

Sanni Lark
3 min readDec 7, 2024

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So many women on this planet are far too busy waiting instead of living and cultivating.

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I write to encourage women to practice selfishness because this state of being, living and enjoyment is our default spiritual setting.

Sure, existing in your default setting can feel extreme and radical in a society that is constantly hounding you to hand over your attention, money and feminine essence to everyone’s fucking problems. But at the core, selfish as fuck is who you are. Unfortunately, the average woman is far, far, far away from home, so to speak.

So many women on this planet are far too busy waiting instead of living and cultivating. At any given time you can find a woman waiting for a man. Waiting on Jesus to take them to heaven. Waiting for their ex to see the error in his ways. Waiting for their husband or baby daddy to appreciate them. Waiting for their kids to behave. Waiting for their mother to apologize to them. Waiting for the next president to lower taxes or make life easier for them and their children. Waiting for their boss to give them a raise. Waiting for a smaller waist and bigger ass to magically show up without putting in any cultivation on their end.

Unapologetically selfish women live by the knowing that all they have is the present. All they have is themselves. All…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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