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Black Divested Women, White Dick Worship, And Why I Left This Community For Good

Sanni Lark
6 min readApr 18, 2022

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Just like many Christians are waiting on a white man named Jesus to burst through the clouds very soon, many divested women are anxiously waiting for a “high value” white man to redeem their black womanhood by giving them a chance to make up for the lost time they spent pouring themselves into a community that hates them, catering to black men, and raising their children on their own.

Before I begin, you should know that you are reading an article written by a black woman who does not fuck, date, or suck black men. So no, I am not a “mammy” who is sticking up for black men. I could care less about them, and about men in general. Actually, men as a whole are not that interesting and I don’t see the appeal in getting online to discuss their every move on a daily basis in divested groups. Maybe because I know that the members of the opposite sex are motivated by one thing, and as a result I am not really flattered or triggered by anything they do or say, whether it’s a compliment or an insult. Why grown women are so emotionally moved by anything men do is weirdly fascinating to me.

I mean, on any day you don’t feel beautiful unless a man compliments you? Really?

You are reading the opinions of a woman who used to belong to the divested community until she…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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