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Can We Quit Lying & Admit That We All Love Toxic Relationships?
“For years I craved dysfunctional men and dysfunctional partnerships, and both served their purpose!”
During the pandemic I noticed a surge in conversations surrounding toxic relationships and toxic people, namely narcissists. Now all of a sudden we are labeling anyone who chooses to manipulate others a narcissist, although we are all given permission to manipulate others and life itself as a gift for being alive (my newsletter goes in depth about this). And those who choose not to do so and “do the right thing” instead are considered to be victims of narcissists.
The real reason why I do not get caught up in this popular narcissist hate is because this hate comes way after a woman or man loved and enjoyed their narcissist in peace until they decided their toxic partners were not worth loving anymore. Then they graduate to being victims of a situation they claim they couldn’t control, even though romance is a completely optional activity and you can back out of it anytime.
