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Childfree Women Are Mammies Too!

Sanni Lark
6 min readJun 9, 2023

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“I’d like to propose that anyone who is willingly raising a human being, whether that human is four years old or 40 years old, is not childfree.”

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Many individuals who claim the childfree status have admitted that they desire a better variety of accommodations in their states and communities to include more adult-only spaces that do not only include swingers parties and bars, although parents bring their young children to bars as well. A young lady even went viral on TikTok because she expressed that she would happily pay to live in a childfree neighborhood. And I definitely feel her sentiments; there are times when I step outside and immediately make a u-turn to head inside and lock my doors when I see or hear children laughing and playing!

Yes, I understand that living amongst adults who believe children are a gift from God and not a normal, biological occurrence of getting raw-dogged and refusing to terminate means I must put up with their offspring at times. And sometimes I do. However, there are times when I long to live amongst acres of land with no one in sight so I can roam about outside and sun my chocolate skin in silence without hearing a parent urging their child to go inside and do homework.

These are the types of daydreams and experiences that childfree people bond over, and I will admit that it is nice to connect with such…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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