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Common Sense > Religion: Why Christian Women Stay Getting Played!

Sanni Lark
3 min readMar 30, 2024

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Lifestyles do not save women from shit. Religion and baptism does not save women from shit. Hell, even being a witch does not save women from shit!

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Can abstinence be a great tool in a woman’s journey? Of course! However, my issue with abstinence in the Christian church is that it brainwashes women into believing that simply saving themselves for marriage and finding a good Christian man to settle down with serves as a effective alternative to cultivating life skills and common sense that will save women down the road.

The problem is that a Christian marriage isn’t always the gilded cage a woman is conditioned to view as her scapegoat from living and learning in life. Many of these wives some of y’all envy have habitual cheaters for husbands. Some of their partners maintain sexual relationships with other men. Some of them pass on STDs to their wives who gave away their virginity to their spouses on their wedding night. Some wives are beaten senselessly and they have no money or resource to leave.

I don’t give a damn what lifestyle you live. I don’t care if you are a sugar baby, a career woman, a housewife, a god-fearing woman, a single mother, whatever. Nothing, and I mean nothing, can save you from the consequences of being stupid and mentally childish!

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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