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Dear Heartbroken Women, Men Don’t Lose Good Women! Stop Lying & Begin To Heal!

Sanni Lark
4 min readMar 25, 2023

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“He didn’t lose you. Because he didn’t care to keep you in the first place.”

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Early this morning I came across yet another woman preaching on social media about how men lose good women due to a variety of reasons that make absolutely no sense, and I have finally had enough of the shenanigans. This is the last straw for me, so now I must challenge this concept that so many ladies insist on parading as advice to men, when it is really a desperate cry to be seen, felt, and empathized with.

And so here I am. I see you.

By the last straw, understand that my mission is not to tear women apart who have been physically, mentally, and emotionally abandoned by their partners. It is to state that lying to yourself, and the world at large by way of these social media platforms, is really just you playing yourself and delaying the painful yet necessary healing process. Healing, and ultimately acceptance, begins with truth. So here is the harsh truth that neutralizes the lie that men lose good women:

You don’t lose anything you don’t care about.

Again, you don’t lose anything you don’t care about!

The man, or men, that supposedly “lost” you didn’t care that much to cherish you, protect you, and…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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