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Dissecting Sex Lies & Rewriting Pleasurable Truths
The amount of time it takes a man to finish is perfect timing, but the time it takes a woman to orgasm is too long?
One long-standing lie that has robbed so many women of their right to pleasure, a major aspect of womanhood, is the popular notion that women take too long to cum during sex. Apparently it is our fault that we cannot achieve orgasm as quickly as our gender counterpart; so it is appropriate for us to not only be punished with dissatisfying sexual experiences that solely benefit the man, but function as flesh lights whenever a man is in the mood to get his rocks off.
According to our greater society, the answer isn’t found in men learning to view intercourse as a way to emotionally connect with their partners instead of seeing this intimate act as another form of masturbation where orgasm is the only goal in mind to rush towards. The answer lies in continuing the tradition of men chasing the same sex that women do not want to partake in, and viewing this dynamic as completely normal.
But…who told you that you are taking too long in bed?
Who imprinted the belief that you automatically take too long to cum just because you were born a woman?
How long is sex supposed to take, and why is that duration determined by a man’s pleasure and not yours?
