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Do Nice Guys Finish Last? This Misandrist Says Yes!
“I’m lost. Who the fuck told these men that nice guys were supposed to finish first?”
I received a notification from Facebook that a friend’s birthday is today. I excitedly typed him a quick happy birthday message to acknowledge his new year of life.
“Jordan is such a nice guy,” I said to myself as I reflected on our many years of friendship. While we are not that close and we don’t speak often, I can still attest to his outstanding character, solid manhood, and kindhearted nature. He is one of the few men on this planet that I truly trust.
The kicker is that Jordan liked me ever since we met seven years ago. And while I always appreciated him respecting me and treating me like a human being instead of a flesh light he can bone, I never reciprocated the romantic feelings he had for me. Frankly, I didn’t owe him that either.
Now after my time in the ring with the many men from my past who hurt me and abused me, do I regret not giving Jordan a chance?
Hell no.
Now you may be thinking I have Stockholm Syndrome or that I prefer terrible men because it’s easier to blame all men for the experiences I had with some of them. But that’s not the case at all. I wouldn’t give Jordan, or any “nice” guy, a chance for many reasons that will…
