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Earning A Seat At The Table > Pretty Privilege & Receiving Obedience Treats From Men

Sanni Lark
4 min readDec 30, 2023

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The sexual value games all women have been entered into from birth are about controlling us like herded sheep and preventing us from recognizing our feminine power to create whatever we please.

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Survival in this matrix as a woman does require us to be pretty, charming, and appealing to men who have resources, job opportunities, financial security, and validation to reward us with for being obedient to the beauty standard and sexual value system they created for us. These value systems allows them to dangle whatever prizes they please in our faces while we compare our worthiness to receive these limited sources of false power with other women.

Even feminists speak out against privileges like this, as they impede on their goals for equality because they prevent women who may not be as pretty, or as slim, or even as white, to receive the crumbs men allow to fall from their tables of authority.

But what if you don’t give a damn about fighting and competing with other ladies for crumbs that were…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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