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Escaping The Basic Bitch Algorithm: Let Me Tell You What Hell Is Really Like
You’re stuck in the wilderness, wanting out of your nightmare but not knowing how to get out. Because the more energy you put into a life you hate the more it is empowered to work against you.
Trauma gives us a lot of answers regarding our habits and lifestyles, but the sacrifice is discomfort and fear. Yes, trauma will point you to the root of why you cannot maintain your weight and why you would rather grow a child than grow a business. Many ladies do not want to surrender to those harsh truths, and so they run.
They run to husbands. They run to birthing cute little babies who conveniently trap the the life force they wanted to use to lose weight, start businesses, and do other things that make them feel good about themselves. And then they keep the trap alive by lying to everyone about how much these roles, or distractions, are so fulfilling to them. Because they have lied to themselves.
In this algorithm you can receive the attention from others you’ve been craving through getting pregnant over and over again. You can excuse yourself out of the body you always wanted. You can tell everyone you’re too busy raising a family to do anything else that requires hard work but makes you feel alive. You can sabotage your health by telling your doctor you buy candy for…
