Exactly! You get it! Emotional attachment can be fine, but you must navigate it wisely. Like you can have real feelings for him but as long as you don't care to be his "main woman" you will be successful. Many women cannot be mistresses because they have this (strange) obsession with a man solely belonging to them and no one else, as if men are pets.

I don't ever want to be anyone's main woman. Stay with your wife and worship me in private. I know I have your heart anyway. Ha!