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Fat Women Do Not Need Boyfriends To Start Loving Themselves!

Sanni Lark
5 min readJun 20, 2023

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“A man doesn’t have to step into your life in order for you to step into the realm of love. Love is available for you in the here and now. And it starts with self.”

Credit: Hans Takiwātanga via Pexels

I saw a stitched reel featuring a beautiful woman happily existing in her larger body. She is one of those ladies who hold the majority of their weight in their stomachs, arms, and upper body. She posed in the mirror showing off her backside in response to a comment addressed to her that said, “I found someone with a flatter butt than you.”

The stitch was a stunning tall woman with the same body shape who wanted to prove that her butt was flatter. She had so much life and energy as she danced in front of the mirror while her man filmed her with the biggest smile on his face. After she was done showing off her body she walked over to her man and kissed him.

The reel was very cute. I love that these happy ladies are showing themselves off with no apology even though they both have body shapes that are not promoted by the general society and also not promoted by the movements and spaces that were created for women who exist in larger bodies. Maybe it’s just me, but I always found it strange that I mainly see pear-shaped and hourglass-shaped fat women being welcomed to love themselves as they integrate with society to model and be…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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