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Feminine Vulnerability = Truth: Why Modesty Is Not Inherently Feminine

Sanni Lark
3 min readDec 13, 2024

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The soul craves the freedom to express itself. It does not live to be imprisoned by the horniness of men.

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Women that are afraid to feel are women that are liars, even if they are not at all aware of the lies they tell themselves. The areas in your life that you refuse to be vulnerable in are the areas where you are most likely lying to yourself and to others. When you don’t tell yourself the truth by feeling and managing your emotions on a regular basis, anyone and anything can step in to become the truth you were supposed to discover within.

Religion is one of the most popular truths people cling to. Cults, communities and other groups that discourage its members from thinking and feeling for themselves is another. Unaddressed trauma and the masculine, warrior identities we create from horrific experiences to protect ourselves can tell us lies that we believe are our personal truth. So can the blame game where we point the fingers at our parents, exes, kids, jobs or ancestors for where we are in life.

I should add that these “truths” are illusions that aim to cover up, disguise and also shame vulnerability, authenticity and soul connection. This is why I do not believe modesty, which is a byproduct of religious programming and masculine societal conditioning, is inherently…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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