From Trad Wife To Single Mother: Deeper Spiritual Lessons
Maybe you’re not meant to be kept in the house until you die? Just a thought.
This may be a hard pill to swallow, but the people you claim are wrong for you now were right for you when you chose them to be a part of your life a few years ago. Changing your mind on them being wrong from being perfect for you in the beginning is proof that you needed the catalysts and problems they introduced into your reality to boss up. Because the man who ended up being wrong for you was the right man at one point!
Something or someone can be right for you in your younger years and as you mature this person or thing may not fit into your current reality based on you pursuing a different, more authentic trajectory. This is not a situation that is specific to trad wives, either. For example, I was dead set on building a career in corporate America right after college, and now I am allergic to anything 9–5. I was also obsessed with falling in love, and currently I am enjoying life as a single and celibate woman.
In life we are meant to oscillate between many polar opposites because the goal in being human is to expand, just like the feminine universe. Expansion requires discomfort and death, or the ending of one thing for something new to emerge. Once we extract what we need from any given situation, or archetype…
