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“Good Men Aren’t Hard To Find, They Just Don’t Want You.”
I came across a Facebook photo of a woman holding a large, handwritten sign which states, “Good men aren’t hard to find. They just don’t want you.” Of course her post generated a lot of buzz, with both men and women engaging in discussion over whether her words are accurate or not.
Now I am familiar with the young lady who created the post. I have seen a few of her viral posts in the past which lead me to check her profile out. She claims to be an advocate for black men, and her viewpoints pretty much center around the notion that black men, and men in general, are innocent lambs who can do no wrong to women. And as expected black men flood her comments section, praising her for uplifting them.
What I find interesting about her good men post was how it related to her. You see, this woman is as single as a dollar bill. She has spent many years catering to men online with no results, all while bashing single women when she is in fact extremely single herself. The only real connection she has to men is her large litter of children with multiple fathers.
So I must ask, if good men aren’t hard to find then where is her “good man?” Or is she simply providing confirmation that the widely available stock of good men don’t want her ass? Perhaps she is the living, breathing example of being a pick-me gone…