Harsh Truth: Pain, Money, And Sex Motivates Men More Than Their Love For You

One of the biggest breakthroughs I experienced as it pertains to men was the realization that they do not think like women, nor are they motivated by the same rewards. Once I applied this principle to my relationships, not only with the opposite sex but with damn near everyone in my life, it was smooth sailing from there.

I see way too many ladies begging men to be better partners, fathers, and allies and I am left to shake my head at this sad display. Because these men are not incentivized to do better or to be better. I am not sure if women really want change, or they really have no clue as to how men think.

I look at it like this: if these men are still receiving sex, children, dates, and access to women even though they treat women like shit then why the fuck should they change?!

Because you called them a misogynist?

Because you’re angry?

Because it’s the “right thing to do?”

Because men should support women?

Here’s the thing: they don’t fucking care. Made-up morals and name-calling does not strike fear in their hearts. Men do not care about anything they are not incentivized to care about. Unless you are revoking any privileges he can only access through you…