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Have Sex To Worship Pleasure & Life, Not Just For Men & Babies!
Once you begin to have sex to honor life, femininity, and your right to carnal reverence you actually begin to dance with your pleasure, which I believe is true love-making.
I can tell that the average woman is so disconnected from her pussy even though she is climbing on top of her boyfriend or husband and riding his dick a few times a week. For many ladies sex is one of the many required feminine chores that achieves one or two outcomes: pleasure for the man or pregnancy. As women most of us were never taught that sex should benefit us; just that it’s our duty to view it as a requirement for having a man and keeping him in our lives, and whether we enjoy the act or not doesn’t matter.
Long-term celibacy showed me how I was living a sub-optimal life that left me feeling numb, empty, and zombie-like. I was just going through the motions of life that society assigned to my womanhood even though it didn’t feel as if I had any life inside of me.
Being single and celibate forced me to recenter pleasure to solely benefit me, and this lifestyle taught me that I didn’t have to have sex if my body really didn’t want to. I also learned to bypass my decades-long religious indoctrination of male worship, as refusing a man’s desires to jump in my bed anytime he was horny wasn’t the terrible…
