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He Keeps Frustrating You Because You Refuse To Manage Your Life
Do you actually love yourself more than you love the convenience of having a man around?
Have you ever wondered why some men enjoy pushing the buttons of women? Maybe you are in this situation yourself, where you keep giving that man of yours ultimatum after ultimatum in hopes that your harsh words will whip his defiant ass into shape?
I have definitely been in this position many times. I have held “the final straw” in my hands too often. And yet I wouldn’t let that goddamn straw go and simply move on!
Believe it or not, men actually enjoy getting cursed out. It thrills them to no end to see you so fed up with them and still choose their irritating asses over and over and over and over again. Even if they want to do better, their selfish nature won’t allow them to improve.
This is how their twisted mindset operates whenever they are constantly welcomed into the spaces and lives of women they do not respect:
“She’s wasting her time with me. Hell, she’s wasting her damn life with me! She must really love me. I must be special.”
Your reluctance to break things off is you proving to this man that he is a valuable asset in your life. We easily let go of the things we don’t care for. And we have a hard time letting…
