He Wants Both The Submissive Wife & The “Whore.” Let’s Discuss.

“I completely understand why some women only choose to date married men. Their wives do all the dry, boring ass ‘wifely duties’ while you get to play and have fun on a man’s dime.”

A woman wrote a viral post on social media that reads as follows:

“Men who follow half-naked girls but ask for a modest wife will always confuse me.”

What exactly are you confused about, ma’am?

So because you were groomed to lust after the fairy tale of being with one man for the rest of your life, men must want that as well?

I’m rolling my eyes right now. Girl, have a seat and let’s chat.

It may be confusing to you that a man wants women who have opposite lifestyles and play opposing roles but understand this:

Both the wife and the whore benefit him. It is all about his gain at the end of the day.

Note: Keep in mind that I am referring to the Whore as an archetype. It is not meant to be used in a derogatory way. We’re grown here. Moving on.

The wife provides stability and grounding, while the mistress/other woman/sex worker/side chick/secretary gives him freedom.

A big reason why I choose to be single is because a lot of men are needy as fuck. I am one woman; just one. And at this point in my life I simply cannot be a man’s mother, friend, therapist, coach, business partner, sex goddess, maid, and…