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Heartbreak & Emotional Bypassing: Are Religious Women And Misandrists The Same?
To be free you must feel, learn and grow from your pain not numb yourself, build walls and isolate yourself from human relationships and sexual experiences because you are afraid of getting hurt again.
As I’ve mentioned many times in past posts, men will ask you for anything and once you give them that thing they won’t value it. Why? Because they received something for nothing! Demands, requests, and begging is free. There is no sacrifice involved on a man’s end for asking you for shit. But you giving something to a man that you value will always be a bigger sacrifice than him simply asking for that sacrifice.
In this lady’s case she sacrificed her 20s and became a mother and a ride-or-die chick during what is supposed to be one of the most fun and memorable decades of any woman’s life. So of course she felt as if she was owed a halfway decent man! But this attentive man she created in her head who is supposed to rectify the pain she endured and make her sacrifices worthwhile is not the man she supported and had kids for.
I don’t know how many times I have to keep repeating this, but you do not have to birth kids for any man and then demand a loving partner and father for these kids you didn’t have to have, well after he showed you he was anything but!
