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Her Boyfriend Wants Her To Write A Letter Persuading Him To Marry Her!

Sanni Lark
4 min readNov 5, 2023

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Marriage to men who are a-okay with watching you break your back and bruise your hands for his comfort is not an upgrade in any way, shape, or form.

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I came across a short clip where a coach by the name of Ashley Dalton is speaking with a young lady about her boyfriend who needs a little incentive to consider marrying her after being together for nearly four years.

“I’ve been dating my boyfriend since I was 18. In November it’s about to be four years together. And I’ve been playing wife without a ring. I cook, clean. I do everything in the house for him.

So he moved with me; we’re together now. We found a place and we’re together. So I asked him; I was like, ‘November is about to be our four years together and I have been with you all my life from 18 years old and I’m 22 right now…I think I want a ring. Like, I want a promise ring.’

This man told me I should write him a letter of why I deserve a ring. Should I write the letter?”

I will admit that it is pretty insulting for a man to ask his woman to write him an actual sales letter to determine if she has earned this ring. But I am even more flabbergasted that this young lady is considering taking a break from her lifestyle as a glorified maid under the guise of being a…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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