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“Heterosexuality Isn’t A Choice” My Ass! Sexuality Is More Fluid Than Straight Women Think!
Straight women feel as if they must protect their precious sexuality at all costs, even at the expense of remaining single and celibate for extended periods of time.
Pretty much all of us were handed heterosexuality as the default since birth. We had no choice but to pretend we had “a little boyfriend” in grade school, and some of us even believed we truly liked boys as well. Again, when you are a child and you want to please your parents it is natural to adapt their beliefs as your own, including the belief that because you were born female you like playing with dolls, you like boys, and you will grow up to marry a boy.
Many of us didn’t want to deal with the emotional blackmail of disappointed parents, or we were too scared to speak our truth in fear of getting a spanking or getting yelled at.
Some people always had an inkling that they were never really straight, and others get this realization in the later stages of their lives. But there are those who still claim heterosexuality as their sexuality of choice but they enjoy romantic and sexual connections with others who belong to different genders and different sexualities.
So can I say that many straight women simply refuse to acknowledge that they have…
