Hey Alan my love!
Men are trustworthy NOW. And yes, some of them can certainly cultivate healthier relationships with women. I will never fix my lips to say that those types aren’t aren’t there. My misandrist stance stems from human behavior more so than gender. Men and women are one in the same; I guess the things I say about men are more “popular” but in actuality I really don’t discriminate lol. Think about it: men come from women. They’re taught about life from women. Surely they will pick up some “bad” traits along the way.

As humans I believe whatever we do, whether we are trustworthy or not, is self-serving. What many women believe is sacred/divine masculinity is the masculine operating in a way that benefits and honors the feminine. What these ladies may not realize is that the “divine masculine” is just as selfish as the members belonging to “toxic masculinity.”

Personally, I don’t see much difference between “men” and “males.” Sure, I feel safe around men. I even love some of them. But they’re all still human beings.

I actually trust men more than many people do. I trust men, and all humans in general, to do what’s best for them. Even if I’m benefitting from being with them.