Hi Selena! Your comment makes a lot of sense and brings me more clarity into my identity: a highly sensual, feminine woman who could care less about penetration. Lol.
I “channel” sex through dancing, exercise, stretching, and overall movement, because I believe my sensuality belongs to me first and these activities bring me deep satisfaction. I do enjoy emotional connection and affection while my partners had high libidos and were more interested in intercourse. The best relationship I’ve been in involved no sex.