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High Sex Drive Vs. Low Sex Drive: Not What You Think!
Women who can only associate pleasure with sex have low sex drives, even though these ladies are doing exactly what is expected of them.
For many men, only a woman who wants to fuck them and fuck them often has a high libido, when the reality is that they may not possess enough life force energy to keep up with a woman who enjoys pleasure in every aspect of her life. In the past I have been with men who were lifeless, dull, lethargic, boring, and lazy in their everyday lives but they relied on using women for sex to feel alive. This is sex addiction territory, if you must know.
I have met very sensual women over the years, and some of them admitted that they would be just fine if they never had sex with their partners or their husbands ever again. The sexual energy that is very potent in the lives of these magical women is just transferred into other pursuits that bring them pleasure. These women do not have a low libido at all: they just know how to use their sexuality and sexual energy in other beneficial ways that do not involve getting naked and climbing into bed with their lover.
If the bedroom is the only place you give yourself permission to feel sexy then you have some work to do!
In our narrow-minded society having a high sex drive is labeled as good because a high…