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His Character Matters More Than His Zodiac Sign, Sis!
I love a good zodiac joke, but there are some women who take this, “What’s your sign?” shit way too seriously. Seriously, stop asking random men when they are born!
If you ask me, his sign does not matter. His character matters more!
When I was younger I used to be obsessed with zodiac signs. I also had a friend who shared her love of figuring out people’s personalities based on their birth date. I kid you not, we would always ask people we meet their date of birth, especially men. For some reason we believed a man’s birthday served as a valid, accurate barometer by which we can measure our compatibility to potential mates.
I am a Cancer. Apparently I am more compatible with certain signs than others. But I have discovered this isn’t always the case. There were some “incompatible” guys that I hit it off with right away. And other star signs that I was supposed to automatically get along with couldn’t find common ground with me on anything!
Our personal tribe is made up of healthy, reciprocal platonic, familial, and romantic relationships. Clearly every single person in your life that you call a loved one does not fall into one or a select few zodiac signs! As the famous saying goes, “Variety is the spice of life.”
