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“Hoe, Why Is You Here?”
What’s the point of sharing your life, your home and your body with someone if they expect you to act as if you are alone?
If a woman is in a relationship with a provider, problem solver and protector that means she is not facing the problems of this world alone anymore. Naturally she will be more submissive, or more trusting of her man’s initiatives and leadership if he is creating lasting, positive results through the masculine qualities he successfully utilizes to make her life more enjoyable as a woman. Right?
By masculine qualities, I am not implying that only men can provide, problem solve and protect. But if a woman is in a relationship with a damn man, why must she remain in this state and resume her life as if she is single? Like, what’s the point of sharing your life, your home and your body with someone if they expect you to act as if you are alone?
I guess what I am asking is this: what do these self-proclaimed good men think their role is in a relationship? In fact, most men are aware of “the four P’s of masculinity” which include professing, protecting, providing and problem solving. So does this submission men demand from women not extend towards them being the type of man a woman needs?
Men, from your experience is it that women resort to helpless children in relationships, or perhaps you expected the…
