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How To Create Your Own Happily Ever After As A Single Woman

Sanni Lark
7 min readAug 8, 2023

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After years of searching for happily ever after in social approval from well-meaning strangers, dead-end romantic relationships, friendships that have cost me a lot, plus the random men and the women who would give their lives to have one of them, I have discovered that happily ever after was inside of me all along.

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I have mentioned many times that I was very young when I decided I didn’t want to have children or get married. I made such a concrete decision before I was able to read, despite random adults placing bets on my womb and encouraging me to start a family decades into the future before I even knew what a period was, just so they can win some feelings of self-gratification for adapting their lifestyle as my own.

My decision to take back my body as a kid and protect myself from vampiristic adults who were interested in grooming me to function as a broodmare instead of a human being with her own brain and autonomy stemmed from trusting my sixth sense over the disgusting obsessions of creepy parents who took a keen interest in what I would eventually do with my pussy as an adult. So I developed my intuition from young because I spent a lot of time alone. I paid attention to the things that made me excited to grow up and experience life as a woman. And I came to the following conclusions:

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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