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How We Groom Young Boys To Be Predators As Men

Sanni Lark
4 min readSep 23, 2024

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Instead of warning growing girls that men are dogs, how about we stop raising men to be dogs? Just a thought.

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I don’t know about you, but I find it backwards as hell that so many parents expect boys to act out in completely animalistic ways but then expect these same boys to grow up to be decent husbands and fathers after years of excusing this type of behavior as normal. While this is going on girls are pressured into protecting their virginities for dear life through fear mongering about how men are only after one thing. However, that is how the men are raised to be: reckless as hell with absolutely no control over their bodies. Oh, and of course to confuse no with yes. Whatever gets you laid.

We praise young ladies for keeping chaste until marriage, but in the same breath we encourage young men to give away their virginity as quickly as possible. In other words, in one camp we have women who are are demonized for having sex, and in another we have men who are demonized for not having it.

Question: why aren’t we all on the same fucking page?!

It’s almost as if we have set girls up to look forward to marriages where they are not viewed as people with the ability to reason and say no, but only valued based on what they can sexually provide for their husbands? I mean, we are literally…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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