I 100% agree. I see this pain addiction all the time; hell even as writers we witness people who hate what we write but they can’t help but continue to pay us through their “hate reading” right?
I was watching an episode of Law & Order SVU where a woman was raped by her husband. Instead of prosecuting him she just wanted to forgive him and go home, because she couldn’t imagine life without him.
These are the types of women people want me to feel sorry for. I don’t. Harsh? Oh well. I’ve learned that my own compassion can be used against me.
As J Cole says, “Don’t save her. She don’t wanna be saved.” 💃🏾