I dated a liberal guy and it was amazing how he would drone on and on about being a black king YET he still wanted to have long-ass discussions about systematic this and “the black man is oppressed” that. It drove me absolutely crazy.
He loved white women because the ones he ran into validated his victim hood mentality and treated him like a helpless child.
My thing is this: if you want me to treat you like a grown man the very least you can do is handle your business and act like one. I didn’t grow up with a father who had a woe-is-me mindset so I am thoroughly disgusted by it.
I completely understand your sentiment.