I Don’t Play Fair, Because I Don’t Have To: In Relationships, There Is No Such Thing As Equality

Sanni Lark
4 min readApr 30, 2021

I have been chastised by so many people over the years for speaking out about putting myself and my needs first when it comes to relationships, especially romantic ones.

I hear so many women fight for the right to be taken advantage of by men who know they have the emotional upper-hand in the relationship. These women really believe they are doing their fair share by bending over backwards to keep a man happy, under the guise that they must “play fair” with men. And…

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com