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I Fully Support Ghosting & Cutting People Off With No Explanation!
“It is no one’s responsibility to force you to grow the hell up and become a better friend or partner.”
Over the past few days I have been reflecting on my past relationships and friendships, and how the men and women whom I laughed with, cried with, and shared lots of special memories with are now a thing of the past. And truth be told, I don’t miss them one bit. I have never lost anyone I needed.
There is this overwhelming consensus that is making its rounds on social media that if you have a problem with someone you love it is your responsibility to communicate. Because communication is the “adult” thing to do. It shows maturity. It shows that you are willing to be flexible and salvage the relationship as opposed to throwing it away, which apparently is immature.
Well, I say fuck that! Sure, it is obvious that we are not dating, marrying, or befriending individuals who can read our minds, so if there is an issue that is on our hearts we should say something.
But…
As a woman who has had to block several friends over the course of my life I am here to acknowledge that you can express your feelings many times and people will not change. They won’t listen. They will take you and the friendship they built with you for granted, and…
