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“I Need To See The Little Girl In Her”: Exploring Feminine Playfulness From The Lens Of A Man

Sanni Lark
4 min readMar 13, 2024

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Like the saying, “Mommy’s baby, daddy’s maybe,” your inner feminine connects you to your inner child.

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A major way couples can strengthen their relationships is to take off all the mental and emotional armor they wear to fight and survive in the world and strip naked. Not to have sex, but to connect with each other’s inner child, an innocent state of existing that was young, wild, and free before trauma, religious dogma, parental expectations, and societal conditioning turned us into stressed out adults who are hesitant to be ourselves and do anything without some survival or approval purpose attached to it.

So how do you connect with your inner child, whether you are in a relationship or not? Well, dare to find adventure and wonder in the everyday.

Dare to make life a game, because none of this shit is as serious as our adult selves make it out to be.

Dare to recreate your reality where you no longer see problems as end-all-be-all scenarios but as portals of opportunity and possibility for you to enter.

Dare to enjoy moments that involve cartoons, stuffed animals, snacks, singing loudly, and jumping on the bed.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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