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If You Can Answer These Questions You Are Ready For A Relationship

Sanni Lark
2 min readMay 16, 2022

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Relationships are about service. A woman is ready to be in partnership with a man when she can give herself to a man without feeling robbed. Are you willing to be of service to your partner? Can you see yourself trusting a man without him hurting you?

Of course a man has to provide a trusting environment to accommodate such devotion. But are you truly ready to receive such a man?

From birth, many of us were robbed out of healthy relationships with men, from men themselves. This usually starts with the relationship, or lack thereof, with our daddies. Have you healed that part of you which longs for your absent father? Most importantly, have you accepted that you may never find him in any other man you may come across in this lifetime?

I choose to be single because I will always feel like a man is taking something out of me, and away from me, if I am giving him anything he wants. Even if it is within reason. Being single is about being conscious of my ability to hurt others, and getting out of their way so they can find their energetic match in someone else.

Because no man who has intentions to love me deserves this.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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