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If You Require Anything From Men Your Standards Are Too High!

Sanni Lark
5 min readJan 5, 2023

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Ladies, for the most part these are your options for marriage and procreation: a group of defunct men who expect to be served and worshipped. Because “tradition.”

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Over the years I have heard from many ladies who were courageous enough to share their requirements for a life partner, in person and online. With the information shared and exchanged, it is clear that many women expect their husbands to pay the bills and cover the family financially. Others require their future beau to have a chiseled body complete with a six-pack. And there are those ladies who are just happy to have a man. They don’t care about looks, status, or money. Love is all they need.

Between all of these women, can anyone answer what the majority of them have in common, from the ones with the highest of standards to the nonexistent?

They all will be disappointed by men. Whether they have standards or not, a lot of men are subpar to the point where even the “All you need is love” crew is complaining! This is due to the fact that they were not reared to be self-sufficient adults, let alone halfway-decent husbands and fathers.

Sure, we can blame their parents. We can point fingers at our society which excuses and even worships the opposite sex, from the most established gentleman to the extremely…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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