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Imagine Worshipping A White Man But Refusing To Date One. Because Culture.

Sanni Lark
3 min readDec 18, 2024

Black women and their weird-ass loyalty is trending on social media.

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I have witnessed in horror as beautiful black women with Caribbean roots tout that explaining specific behaviors that are unique to our culture to a man who isn’t familiar with our antics is too much for them. So, you’re not going to keep your options open like the very men in your culture are doing with no apology because a simple explanation is a waste of time?

Well, how much time are you wasting by limiting yourself to a race or culture of men who don’t even care to publicly acknowledge you as the exclusive and only option for them to love, cherish, spoil and care for?

The reason why black men are not at all participating in this trend, with some of them even bragging about dating outside their race and how much better nonblack women are compared to their own, is because black men do not view any blind loyalty to their culture or race as necessary. In fact, they (rightfully) view this kind of loyalty as something that interferes with…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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