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Is It Ghosting, Or Do You Not Listen Well?

Sanni Lark
3 min readMay 1, 2024

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I’ve grown into the type of woman who doesn’t like to hear herself talk.

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If there is one thing many of these ex-friends share, it’s that they most likely believe I ghosted them. Some of these ladies even admitted to me that it felt as if I just dropped off the face of the earth and forgot about them after they didn’t hear from me any longer.

However, I can certainly attest that I haven’t ghosted anyone. I always make myself very clear on my boundaries and they chose not to listen and amend their behavior. And frankly that’s not my problem.

I’ve grown into the type of woman who doesn’t like to hear herself talk. If I have a serious issue with you I will let you know about it. And if you continue with this behavior your number will be blocked and our friendship annulled.

Many of us internet citizens are taking to social media to explain how ghosting is passive aggressive. Honestly, I do not believe anyone owes an explanation for why they choose to just move on with their lives. However, I also don’t believe that many people are being…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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