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Is She Actually Boring In Bed, Or Have You Not Earned The Right To Experience Her Fully?
“It all boils down to internal issues of distrust. A woman cannot feel free to be open and alive in the bedroom if she doesn’t trust you.”
Besides performance issues, there are many reasons why a woman chooses to check out from the sexual experience entirely. And as a man you may be wondering why she would do this? Maybe it feels like you’re making love to a lifeless corpse? Or that you’re bothering her whenever you want to stop and partake in some sexy play time? Perhaps she always says No when it comes to sex and you feel abandoned, as if your partner doesn’t care about you anymore? Does your woman feel “cold” to you?
I want to bring to light a few internal issues that women have when it comes to their partners and why they don’t feel the need to be present in their relationships anymore. Truth be told, some women may not even realize that these problems exist so don’t be too upset if she isn’t verbalizing what’s wrong. Matters of the heart, mind, body, and spirit take time for us to consciously be aware of. And they’re even scarier to talk about because there is a fear of misunderstanding or even rejection.
I am not a medical professional or sex therapist, but it does annoy me how many people claim that better foreplay, playing with her clit…