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Is This The Reason Why So Many Women Prefer To Be Single & Alone?

Sanni Lark
3 min readDec 15, 2024

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Simply doing what you are told by your woman as if she is your parent who has been assigned to raise you during your adult years is not what any woman needs or wants.

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Some men truly believe women who choose to be single are idiots that fail to see how having a “good” man around is an asset. Truthfully, I don’t really know what a good man is because everyone’s definition of this make-believe person varies. But, I will say that there are men who possibly live up to this good man trope and they are still clueless as to how utterly alone the women around them feel.

This is due to multiple generations of women resorting to protecting the men in their lives from their feelings, needs and desires because the feminine is the depth, and we will always be too much for some men that cannot perceive danger, trauma, stress, frustration and disappointment beyond their shallow nature.

If I could speak to all men, I will tell them that being a “good man,” whatever the fuck that means, is not enough. Simply doing what you are told by your woman as if she is your parent who has been assigned to raise you during your adult years is not what any woman needs or wants.

Instead, be a present man. Being present requires you to be vulnerable, no exceptions. When you are vulnerable…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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