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Ladies, A Man Refusing To Let You Go Has Nothing To Do With You
“Pull your gun out and show me like, ‘Bitch leave. I wish you would walk out the door.’ I’m going to just sit down because I got a son and I’m not trying to die…so I’m only staying because I got a son and I don’t want you to shoot me.”
Ari Fletcher
Violent, unpredictable men in relationships really have some of their partners right where they want them: scared…and somewhat flattered.
What a combination.
Some women really believe they are oh-so-special if their man cannot let go of her and move on with his life. They use a man’s erratic behavior to feel good about themselves and think this is proof that their beauty, pornstar sex skills, or other attributes means something.
Low self-worth really is a bitch.
If gorgeous women who can suck a mean dick get dumped and cheated on all the time, why would you conclude that you are superior to them because a man keeps blowing up your phone showing up at your job? Perhaps he is acting this way for another reason that has nothing to do with you, as pretty girls come a dime a dozen on planet earth?
May I suggest you find another way to feel valuable instead of using men to gauge what you should be worth to yourself?
